I learned many years ago while being a member of West Valley Orators Toastmasters Club to listen to opposing viewpoints. I actually very much enjoyed debate and the viewpoint of others. Thats why I read Liberal blogs, Feminist blogs, etc.
I have been reading Intellectual Conservative for several years. This Father’s Day Rachel Alexander whose Family is intimately involved in the blog wrote about the recent death of her Brother from Leukemia. And how the Child Support battle with his ex wife and the stress of Parental Alienation cut his life short. He was worn out trying to have access to his Daughter.
Rachel is very and profoundly saddened by this death of her Older Brother. You can go to the site and read her tribute to her Brother. Many years ago while a Young Man. With a young Family. I met a member of My Church at the time in California. Who suffered from Lupus. Who was a good Man, a Mechanic who worked at home as his energy permitted. He did Car Repairs off the books for Cash.
He was Divorced a Father, whose health issues caused his Wife to Divorce him. Milo was not Movie Star handsome. But he was kind, decent, generous and an overall Nice Guy. A few months after he did some work for us on our cars. We heard from his Family that he had died due to complications of his Lupus.
I have known many Men. Who were very deeply emotionally hurt by their separation from their Children. When ex Wives were reasonable everyone including their Children benefitted. I just don’t understand the motives some Women have to deliberately damage their Ex Spouses and Children by interfering in the relationship between Father and Child.
This happens to Women too who do not have custody. It cuts both ways. This is one of my prime arguements for Joint Custody. And for ending the Adversarial Process of Divorce and going to a mediation mechanism for settling Divorces. Less money and more assets preserved for the benefit of the family.
To Rachel Alexander and the Alexander Family. My condolences on the loss of your Brother, Son and his early death. Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo